Who am I ??

I'm walking with Jesus, raising kids, taking care of my husband, finding the answers with homeschooling, keeping up with my family and friends, playing with my 2 dogs/2 cats, looking for good deals, stopping at any yard sale I see, reading, watching reality tv, trying to get my "crafty" fix, laughing, speaking fluent sarcasm and wishing for more time... this is my life!

Sunday, April 10, 2011

4/10 Weekly Journal


  • In my life this week... this has not been a particularly good week. Just a mixture of little things that went wrong that really added up to a yucky week. Our bank account was hacked, some of the kids were sick, crazy week at work and I've just been struggling with an on-going dilemma that I just don't know what to do about. I'm hurt, confused and don't know what to do. I know I should pray and seek wisdom and comfort from God, but I'm just struggling. Why do people have to be so hurtful?



  • In our homeschool this week... Yay!! We finished up another huge part of math and language arts. We are inching closer to being done with 8th grade. Such a huge accomplishment, if I do say so myself! The warm weather was nice to get out and enjoy the park for the afternoon and do some studying outside.



  • Places we're going and people we're seeing... We've been shopping for our Easter outfits this weekend and was bummed to find our favorite bakery, Paradise Bakery in Greenwood, was closed! Boo!! I guess now I will have to make a trip to Castleton for some of those yummy red velvet cookies. As far as the Easter outfits go, we have 2 of the 3 kids bought for.



  • My favorite thing this week... Well, big surprise, but my favorite thing was going to my first yard sale of the season! I'm so ready for all those awesome deals I can hardly stand it!



  • What's Rachel and Ryan doing in school... Ryan completed his solar system project. I was pretty impressed with how he learned the order, color and description of the planets. Young minds never cease to amaze me!



  • Homeschool questions/thoughts/ideas... I'm really looking into a private high school for Morgan next year. Some of the homeschool websites have been very helpful in recommending some schools to look into. I had never thought about this before! I'm actually pretty excited and I am hopeful that this will be perfect for us. I'm still checking, investigating and praying at this point.

Thursday, April 7, 2011

Opening day... let the bargains begin!

So... you can't even imagine how long I've waited to experience this day. Bask in this day. Write about this day. And, today was the day.

Opening day of my yard saling season!

I found my first yard sale, and it was a good one! I'm kind of superstitious that my first yard sale will be a glimpse of the yard sale season to come. I was pleased. I bought Ryan some Hollister, Aeropostale and American Eagle shorts and shirts (on average $1.00/each) among other things. Yay!

I know some don't understand my obsession with yard sales. (that's okay, because it leaves more good finds for me) Honestly, obsession may be putting it mildly. I have been a serious yard saler for as long as I can remember. It's something my mom passed down to me!! Every Thursday, Friday and Saturday from April to September I will do some kind of yard saling. I have found so much for my family, friends and myself. And, I've made a few "investments" along the way and made some money reselling those items. Yard saling is a great way to find good deals on necessities... along with those really cool, unique finds!

The game plan.

Before I head out, I plan and strategize. I check websites, newspapers and keep my eyes open through the week for yard signs. I sometimes plug the addresses into my GPS to get the best route planned. Once there, I have my game plan. A fast walk-thru for the "hot" items and to see what all they have. Then I go back to look closer.

I classify my yard saling into two categories. Thursday/Friday sales and Saturday sales.

T/F sales are scattered (hence the GPS) and it takes a bit more time, but really the efforts are worth it. Not as much of a crowd out shopping and it's usually a better sale overall. The people who have the sales are serious about moving their junk. The downfall is that sometimes you just spent 15 minutes driving to a dud of a sale. But, this brings me to a good point. Never judge a yard sale by a drive-by. Some of the best yard sales I have ever been to didn't look like they deserved a second glance. You just never know. A lot of neighborhoods will have some sales open early on Friday as well.

Saturday sales are all about the neighborhood sales. I only do neighborhood sales on Saturday, no scattered ones. These sales are good for seeing and buying a lot in a small area. I'm talking walking distance. Neighborhood sales have a couple negatives though. They are extremely crowded - so you have to get there EARLY. And, you have your families that are having a yard sale just for the fun of it or because everyone else in the neighborhood is doing so. They literally went through their house the night before and gathered up a few things to sell. Trust me, I can tell.

There are a few things that work the same for both kinds of yard sales.

You can automatically tell if the person having the yard sale is a yard saler themselves. $5 for your faded and stained jeans? Uhm, I don't think so. And so they sit there with all their stuff and don't sell much at all. I would rather take a $1 for those jeans than have to cart them to Goodwill after the sale. But hey, that's me. (I have many theories about how to have a successful yard sale as well. For another time, perhaps.)

Never leave any stone unturned. Or, box unsearched is maybe what I should say. You can find some great things hidden in the bottom of that box of hats and purses. People just don't have time to get everything out and some stuff is missed. And, if you even think you might want it, grab it. Don't take the chance of someone else grabbing it!

Believe it or not, I'm not a huge "wheeler and dealer". If the price is fair, I pay it. But if it's not, I do ask. All they can do is say no. A lot of times I will have numerous items and will try to make deal that way. But I don't really like it when people offer 1/2 of what is marked... just because they think it's marked up for that reason.

I always make a mental note of homes that have sizes my children need. Their children are just a few years older than mine, obviously. I pay particular attention for those homes to have a yard sale again. In neighborhood sales, I would hit those homes first. I have even exchanged phone numbers with people who have what I am looking for so they can call me the next time they have items to sell. This has worked especially with scrapbook and stamping items.

I think the most important thing is just to go with an open mind. You may find nothing... or you may find the buy of a lifetime. Some days are good, some days are bad. And when you don't want to go on rainy days, well, just remember that sometimes the rain can yield a very motivated seller.

And if I bring the kids, I make sure I pack enough snacks and water to hold them over. Kids can always find things at yard sales, too. Video games, music and movies are some of my kid's favorites.

Through the years I have learned quite a bit from yard saling. I would say I have seen America at its best... and worst. I've made friendships with people through yard sales... and enjoy meeting and talking with new people.

God calls us to be frugal and not wasteful with our money. He has provided us with so much through yard sales, and I've enjoyed every minute of the hunt!

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

lessons learned... anywhere.... anytime.

So, I won't get into any of the details, but my 14 year old daughter taught me a pretty good "life" lesson tonight. I will admit, she was totally right and I was totally wrong. And I can put my big girl panties on and deal with it and accept it.

I'm not sure what I should be thankful for though... the fact that I learned a life lesson or that my daughter taught me a lesson? I'm guessing both. :)

Thank you, Lord, for my wonderful children!

Children are a heritage from the LORD, offspring a reward from Him. - Psalm 127:3

Weekly Journal

In my life this week...

It's so hard to believe how fast these weeks go by sometime! Last week was especially a fast one. The kids were on spring break and we tried to do some "fun" things with them since we didn't travel anywhere. I still worked a little in the morning and would get home about the time everyone was waking up, so it worked out. The weather didn't work out for much this break though. We were going to go to a park somewhere and have a picnic... but had to cancel because it SNOWED!!! Ugh... all you can do is laugh! We did go to the zoo and had a great time. We ended up buying a family membership and I'm looking forward to a great summer going whenever we want! My personal favorite thing we did was go shopping. The kids enjoy shopping as well - as long as they have money! And well, me too!

In our homeschool this week...

I know some don't follow the traditional "school" calendar, but since I still have 2 in public school, I follow it. It was nice to take a break and not have to worry about our schedule and lessons. I did count the zoo day as a school activity though! Got to sneak them in whenever you can!

Places we're going and people we're seeing...

Friday night we had our first "3 family fellowship" dinner with 2 other families from church. The idea is to fellowship together with other families that you maybe don't know too well, etc. Each family takes a turn hosting the other families at their home. We loved the evening and everything about it! The company, conversation and food was great. And the kids had a great time too! We are already looking forward to next month's fellowship!

My favorite thing this week...

My favorite thing this week was that we didn't have to be anywhere... at any specific time! We just did whatever... whenever!! But I have to admit I was glad to be back on a routine.

Homeschool questions/thoughts/ideas...

I had planned to go to the homeschool convention, but decided not to due to the controversy surrounding their speakers, etc. I do plan to go to the convention that is here in June. I have already started looking at things for high school. It's overwhelming! It will probably take from now until late summer to really look through and decide what we want to do anyway. I am talking with quite a few moms through the different support communities on the web. I appreciate this so much since I have not really found any support groups in our area.

A photo, link, video or quote to share...

I am starting a new book club this week with some moms from "The Homeschool Village". The book we are reading is "The Power of a Positive Mom". From what I have read so far, it's great! Totally recommend it!